As a society we have been taught to blame the traffic, our job, the commute, our boss, I can go on and on with identifying blaming ideas. The truth is that a lot of the mismanagement of our lives occurs behind closed doors when the out side world is not looking. How we feel about ourselves, our relationships, our finances, etc. can have a huge impact on our emotional state of mind and our quality of living. We repeat this dissatisfaction over and over and attempt to change the outside world to make thigs better. All along, not looking to see what lies behind closed doors.